Things will keep happening.
Life is dynamic.
Its a sum of changes.
It has no constants.
People like you and I are predisposed towards behaving in a certain kind of way - Blaming.
We're pros at playing the Blame-Game.
We blame Time.
We blame Money.
We blame People.
We blame Ourselves.
We blame Everything.
I'm one of you. I'm not any different. I blame and curse as well.
However, for some reason today, I thought a bit about this objectively. And I thought -
We blame. But why?
To get away? To shirk responsibility? Maybe.
To come to terms? To gain closure? Maybe.
To be save the guilt? Maybe.
I think its for Self-Preservation.
We're very proud of how we look. How important we are. How valuable self-esteem is to us.
We're hoarders - and we hoard wealth - in any form.
Any blows to our psyche can upset everything around us.
A bad mood can ruin a lot.
We're emotionally frail. Its true.
That's why we blame. Anything.
Time and Money - Sure you know how and why we blame them.
But we blame ourselves too. Just to feel the pain that's strangely good for us. We go back and nit-pick at things and events gone by. We mentally bash ourselves into submission - because it feels powerful.
We're weird creatures. In our quest for Self-Preservation, we sometimes need to burn ourselves down to build ourselves back up.
I just hope that we always remember to re-create what we just destroyed.
